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Do you feel invisible? Do you worry you are not good enough? Are you too hard on yourself and too easy on others? Do you seek approval outside of yourself? Were your parents narcissistic, codependent, and or emotionally immature? Do you fear abandonment? If so, you are not alone. Codependency is a defense mechanism. It is a way of getting unmet needs met, albeit in a maladaptive way. Codependents often find themselves neglecting themselves for the sake of others' happiness. If you are codependent, you may not even know it, and that is why you stay stuck. It's not you -- it's your programming.
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Book Link: amazon.com/author/lisaaromano
Free Quiz: www.lisaaromano.com
Codependency Recovery Program www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp
Facebook groups/adultchildrenofalcoholics/
Podcast bit.ly/2wndwHI_LARSpotify
Meditation Channel www.youtube.com/@lisaaromanotheconsciousway
If You Could Never Please Your Parents, This Happens: You Feel Insecure About Everything
If you could never please your parents, this happens: You feel insecure about everything, especially relationships. According to Certified Life Coach and award-winning author Lisa A. Romano, relationship insecurities are rooted in three root causes of feelings of unworthiness. In this thought-provoking and inspiring video, you will discover the root causes of codependency, insecurity, and self-doubt, all of which can be healed with enough awareness and commitment to healing from childhood trauma.
Have you ever wondered, "Why don't I feel worthy of love?" Are you constantly battling insecurity and self-doubt and never feeling good enough? If so, you're not alone. In this video, we dive dee...
Have you ever wondered, "Why don't I feel worthy of love?" Are you constantly battling insecurity and self-doubt and never feeling good enough? If so, you're not alone. In this video, we dive dee...
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🚩Covert Narcissistic Mother SCAPEGOAT Adult Daughters GOLDEN CHILD Trap: Parasitic Relationship
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A covert narcissistic mother will scapegoat adult daughters who appear to be her golden child, thus creating a scapegoat/golden child trap, mirroring a parasitic relationship, according to Life Coach Lisa A. Romano. Toxic family relationships include triangulation, enmeshment, emotional dependency, coercive control, gaslighting, and psychological manipulation. When you are a narcissistic mother...
😮4 Odd Trauma Responses That Remain Stuck in Your Body: Healing Childhood Trauma
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4 Odd trauma responses that remain stuck in your body due to childhood trauma that is unresolved and unprocessed. The healing journey is linked to awakening to how unhealed childhood trauma has impacted your mind, body, personality and perceptions of self, others and the world. The inner child healing journey will awaken you to what went wrong and how what went wrong impacted your mind, body, a...
🚩5 Types of Toxic Family Members You Should Avoid While Healing Emotional Trauma
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There are 5 types of toxic family members you should avoid while healing emotional trauma, according to Life Coach and Emotional Wellness Expert Lisa A. Romano. When you are dealing with toxic family members and you are on a healing journey, it is essential to identify signs of toxic family members so that you can avoid them and prevent them from sabotaging your healing journey. If you have rel...
Short 5 Minute Guided Meditation for Grounding and Rebooting: Great for Busy People: Lisa A. Romano
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Short 5 minute guided grounding and rebooting meditation for busy people, created by Lisa A. Romano. This guided healing meditation will help reduce anxiety, stress, and the pressures of daily life, especially when used up to three times a day. If you are a busy person, and you want a quick reboot and refresh, this guided 5 minute meditation is for you. 5 minute guided meditations are perfect f...
❤️🩹BREAKING THE CYCLE OF CODEPENDENCY (AWAKENING FROM THE TRAUMA PARADIGM PART 2)
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#codependencyrecovery #codependency #codependentnomore Breaking the cycle of codependency is like awakening from the trauma paradigm. If you are the adult child of an alcoholic or narcissistic parent, or if you experienced emotional abuse or emotional neglect, you undoubtedly have suffered from living in survival mode, below the veil of consciousness, acting out faulty subconscious childhood pa...
💪When You Stick Up For Yourself and Set Boundaries TOXIC FAMILY and PEOPLE Don't Like It
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When you stick up for yourself, toxic family members and people don't like it. According to Life Coach and award-winning author Lisa A. Romano, it's essential to your mental health to know how to set boundaries with toxic people who don't like it when you begin to advocate for yourself. Do you know what to do when someone crosses your boundary? Do you know how to stand up for yourself when some...
❤️🩹BREAKING THE CYCLE OF CODEPENDENCY (LIVESTREAM PART ONE)LISA A ROMANO
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❤️🩹BREAKING THE CYCLE OF CODEPENDENCY (LIVESTREAM PART ONE)LISA A ROMANO
Neglectful Narcissist: 5 Signs It’s Not YOU
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Neglectful Narcissist: 5 Signs It’s Not YOU
Instant Karma From Healed Empaths: 5 Signs They're DONE Taking On Negative Energy
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Instant Karma From Healed Empaths: 5 Signs They're DONE Taking On Negative Energy
💗#1 SIGN YOU'RE HEALING CHILDHOOD TRAUMA
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💗#1 SIGN YOU'RE HEALING CHILDHOOD TRAUMA
😮Why You Don't Feel Better After Leaving a Narcissist: It's Not You -- It's Your Programming😮
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😮Why You Don't Feel Better After Leaving a Narcissist: It's Not You It's Your Programming😮
🔴#1 RED FLAG THIS PERSON IS GOING TO MAKE YOUR LIFE MISERABLE
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🔴#1 RED FLAG THIS PERSON IS GOING TO MAKE YOUR LIFE MISERABLE
😣CODEPENDENCY RECOVERY: HYPER-FOCUSED ON THE NEEDS OF OTHERS
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😣CODEPENDENCY RECOVERY: HYPER-FOCUSED ON THE NEEDS OF OTHERS
💔THIS KIND OF PARTNER WILL NEVER BE SATISFIED WITH YOUR LOVE
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💔THIS KIND OF PARTNER WILL NEVER BE SATISFIED WITH YOUR LOVE
❤️🩹CHILDREN OF TOXIC PARENTS TAKE YOUR POWER BACK!
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❤️🩹CHILDREN OF TOXIC PARENTS TAKE YOUR POWER BACK!
❤️🩹Fear of Disappointing Others Leads to Anxiety You Don't Need: 3 LIFE COACH HACKS!
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❤️🩹Fear of Disappointing Others Leads to Anxiety You Don't Need: 3 LIFE COACH HACKS!
🫢Mental Health Advocates are NOT IMMUNE to a PUNISHING INNER CRITIC: Breakdown to Breakthrough🎤
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🫢Mental Health Advocates are NOT IMMUNE to a PUNISHING INNER CRITIC: Breakdown to Breakthrough🎤
Heal From Emotional Hurts & Express Yourself - Overcome The Fear of Vulnerability
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Heal From Emotional Hurts & Express Yourself - Overcome The Fear of Vulnerability
💓BEAT SELF CRITICISM: STRATEGIES FOR OVERCOMING CODEPENDENCY SELF CONSCIOUSNESS
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💓BEAT SELF CRITICISM: STRATEGIES FOR OVERCOMING CODEPENDENCY SELF CONSCIOUSNESS
🤫SILENCE THE NARCISSIST or ELSE THEY WILL DRAIN YOUR LIFE FORCE!
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🤫SILENCE THE NARCISSIST or ELSE THEY WILL DRAIN YOUR LIFE FORCE!
Don't Let People Tell You What You Think or How You Feel
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Don't Let People Tell You What You Think or How You Feel
🫢How to Confront a Female Narcissist Friend in Uncomfortable Social Situations with Confidence!
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🫢How to Confront a Female Narcissist Friend in Uncomfortable Social Situations with Confidence!
Quantum Science of Love Consciousness with Lisa A. Romano
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Quantum Science of Love Consciousness with Lisa A. Romano
10 Signs Your Mother Is Narcissistic | Lisa Romano
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10 Signs Your Mother Is Narcissistic | Lisa Romano
Emotional Manipulators Do This | Lisa Romano
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Emotional Manipulators Do This | Lisa Romano
Signs You're Ready to Date Again After Codependency Recovery | Lisa Romano
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Signs You're Ready to Date Again After Codependency Recovery | Lisa Romano
When she discarded me i went no contact then after a month she texted me "why aren't you talking to me? Are you ok?" I answered after 2 days "sorry i forgot to text back i was too busy , I've met someone better than you and im moving on with her" She went crazy with the insults i answered with a smiley face emoji and blocked her
Have you done one about Narcissistic fathers? I'm positive both are Narcissistic.
Wow!! This happens a lot!! It’s almost a cookie cutter narcissistic experience I guess!!
My lips lol OMG I had no idea
Do you have an address and a phone number.
What do you do if journaling is a trigger itself. It doesn't feel safe to jounal! Journaling is too stressful.
My former fiancée would always close her eyes. She claimed she had to concentrate during sex. Only once did she open her eyes and say i love you. Most of the time, i was told i was too heavy for her hips. I realized that after she had been around certain (male) friends, she would not want sex at night. She mostly said, I’m tired and well have sex next morning. She didn’t see any point in modesty about her own body. After the end of the relationship, i could see all the patterns for the facts.
This is such a valuable video!! There is SO much shared here. I've listened to it almost a dozen times. Mom died at age 99 this year. No one, inc me, could ever do enough for her to be happy. It was her issue all along. But the effects of her unhappiness have been a lifelong struggle for me and my sisters..but awareness is the key to healing. Thank you for this. ❤
I go in a room and sense people, even from the phone, a text, a few communications, I am extra sensitive. I also natural in me to help other as a channel, that they find comfort on my words. Some people has asks me to touch a certain pain area, to help them. I have set boundaries now…I am not that extreme anymore
I grew up with my grandmother constantly screaming, throwing plates, hands, and snide remarks. I thought age would make her more sentimental and remorseful, but ive had to come to understand that she's still the same passive aggressive dictator, and that will never change.
I feel like most ppl have cptsd and don't even realize it
Daily striving is not healthy it's like living paycheck to paycheck from one approval to another ppl pleasing is very unhealthy
OMG! That was EXACTLY what happened to me all my life! Thanks, Lisa! (she's deceased now. Phew!)
I have a co-worker like this ....she's satanic
My Dad was narcissistic ,in Jesus name Amen 🙏😇❤️
I am the son of a narc. mother. I always knew she was jealous of me. That would explain all the disapproval, no encouragement, and making things difficult. How can you be jealous of your own children? Sick people. That is why, No approval + no validation = No contact
Or if you are down she likes to kick you 🎤
I made myself very, very small as a way to deal with this. I never felt comfortable shining. She always had to be the superior one. She was always more important. Her needs and feelings trumped mine, every time. I had none to speak of. I made myself invisible in her presence. "Grey rock" became my personality, my way of being and existing.
You didn't miss much, Even had you shined, The encouragement is so fabricated just so they can seem supportive in front of others. Only to be told you're an embarrassment behind closed doors. 🫠
I've watched a lot of videos lately but this one is one of the best I've seen. Amazing description and explanations. Thank you so so much 🙏🏼
This Is Not The Case What I Experienced was different different in this
I was bullied both high school n primary n my parent were not kind also bocoz their ignorance n all this become trauma in the process I become nagative person n beater n all my relationships suffer n am stuck.
I think there’s a lot of different reasons they do it that only they know as we are not in their heads so let’s get to the facts it still has an impact no matter if it’s because they genuinely and knowlingly want to destroy or sabotage or genuinely are anxious for you it still has the same detrimental impact that is valid . Demonising and using this language about a disorder we barely understand as we barely know the brain with current science and still stigma is around is unhelpful Stick to the facts and impacts
So, at age 61 I decided that I wanted to finally achieve a dream and I went to a state University for the first time. I had always wanted to go to college but my family was poor. I married a man who over time became very successful. Once our three Sons graduated University, I said it was finally MY time. I was entering my Senior year in Behavioral Psychology with a gorgeous 4.0. Guess what my Mom said? I don’t see what is the big deal.🫤. University is no harder than high school.👀🙄😐😂. I just laughed. Sure it is Mom.🙄. Sure it is. Never could see me happy and thriving. 😔
I love your meditations but having multiple loud ads in a short meditation ruins the relaxing effect. Are you aware of the ads in the middle?
Wow so fascinating Tragic and yet beautiful this trauma led me to spirituality and My abuser woke me up after she destroyed me completely and it’s true I rose like the Phoenix 🐦🔥 and discarded her
Feel like a lone wolf, low self esteem, sense of worthlessness,fear to create a family, fear people won’t except me, suppressing my feelings, unable to discuss issues with people,having a strong mindset nobody likes or wants me. When I was a child I used to cry in bed at night covering my face with blanket. Beside being narcissistic she was very stingy dressed me in poor clothes and hid away good food from me. It was extremely embarrassing.
You were married to a real jerk, so was I. He was trying to take me down, I had no choice but to say no more, and I divorced him.
Not sure how to take this video Lisa? I feel like I been through so much. What’s wrong with having a good friend to talk to? When you been beat down so much, you just do not need people who beat you down further. After you explained what an empath is the video makes sense. I guess I am on my way to healing in that area because I no longer feel their pain as though it were mine. I no longer feel responsible for whatever it is they’re going through. Whew…
This all ties in to covert abuse . Death By Psychological Murder this crap is too real
Bingo . It's disgusting
So sad ...for children bring abused like this ...
I feel sick Lisa! I have watched a lot of your videos. I thought my husband could change. He gave me such a low self esteem. Last week I did not agree with him and he slapped me with a pretty large unopened cardboard box across my face! I thought he broke my nose! After he struck me he apologized? It’s BS! I want to get out more than anything but at 73 I just don’t know? I just feel sick inside! The other day he made sure I saw him flirting with the neighbor! It just made me hate his guts more. Now I just stay away from him. I confided in my brother and all he could say was that I was over reacting! My mom saw how this man treated me and my sis told me my mom thought he could walk on water? It just sickens me! Thank you for all the encouragement dear lady!
Envy is a deadly sin - why is it that they feel this way about their own children?
They see you not as your own person, but as an extension of themselves. They are unable to conceptualize that you are your own YOU. They treat you like they treat themselves, deep down: with disdain.
It's like we represent everything they hate about themselves. Sick people!
59?? dont play with us ;D
I am soooo very tired of her!...